Relationships with the self-righteous

Understand what happens when you find yourself in a relationship with a self-righteous person. You get preached at and constantly disapproved of, this should be obvious. But there's more. You get subjected to propaganda, you get to watch hypocrisy in action, too.

Everything bad about people and having anything to do with them stems from some sort of insecurity. So much of evil comes from the need to compensate, this is not the kind of person you want to be around all the time.

People have a way of hiding their more nefarious, greedy, self-aggrandizing motives behind good-sounding principles. You may find yourself dragged into truly bad situations, doing bad things because of your association with the sanctimonious.

Lovers fantasized about killing husband to heighten sexual enjoyment

Ari Dimitrakis, 48, and Vicky Soteriou, 43, allegedly discussed plans to murder her husband Chris Soteriou before their secret love trysts to heighten their sexual enjoyment, the Supreme Court heard yesterday.
http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/victoria/lovers-fantasised-about-murder-court-told/story-e6frf7kx-1225943430231


This is one of those stories for those of you who feel bad about not having a committed relationship. remember, there are people like this out there. 

Men who think porn is wrong

The men who believe porn is wrong

"I can't get the pictures of anal sex out of my head when having sex, and I am not really focusing on the girl but on the last anal scene I watched . . . I started looking at porn before I had sex, so porn is pretty much how I learned about sex."

Advice on a weird fetish

I like to eat my own semen. Is this uncommon?

Your relationships are the world's business

Most people think of  mixed (ethnicity or religion) relationships, and same-sex relationships, as a judgment on them and their tastes. If you date outside of your race, or have a preference for your own gender you are somehow insulting all the people that you choose to not date. This is why same sex marriage, like interracial marriage, is seen as a challenge to traditional marriage.

Who you choose to spend your life with is seen as a direct judgment on them. They will do everything in their power to return the perceived condemnation.

Most people are insecure and self-doubting, seeking validation from every possible source, including random strangers on the street. They think that everything in the world somehow has to do with them, including a black chick and a white guy holding hands. 

Sunset Thomas will Conduct Sex Seminar

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Why virginity has such a stigma (especially if you are a guy)

While male virginity has a stigma, nobody particularly wants to be a girl's first time either. Virginity seems to be an unpleasant, embarrassing state that most people do not want to deal with, in any circumstance.

It implies that there is something wrong with you
Unless you are fairly young, not having had sex implies that you have some kind of issue somewhere. Somebody would have picked you off by now if you were not hiding something.

It implies incompetence
This means that sex will be awkward and uncomfortable for both parties. The act will consist of reassurances and instruction. Those are not the kinds of things that most people want to associate with sex.

It's a big responsibility
Taking someone's virginity means that as long as they are alive they will remember you and the occasion. If it sucks, you will be associated with it for a long time in their minds. To be burned into somebody's brain like this can be intimidating.

Bigot burns cross on lawn of interracial couple

A Nova Scotia man admitted Monday he set fire to a two-metre cross on an interracial couple’s lawn earlier this year, but his lawyer argued the act on its own isn’t enough to prove the 20-year-old was inciting racial hatred.

http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/article/877061--nova-scotia-cross-burning-harassment-but-not-hatred-defence-argues

Yes, this stuff still happens. This is not to discourage interracial dating, but rather so that you know that you need a certain amount of strength to pull it off for any length of time.

You want to date outside of your race? 3 of the things that you need to know…

Many people are still not on board
The world is still stuck in a time long before now. What's worse is that they will pretend to be okay with it even though they are not. For the duration of your relationship you will endure all kinds of passive aggressive attacks from random bigots, some of whom you know, many of whom you do not. For some people, this does not matter, for some they do. The key is to not be deceived about how the world will react. Be careful with friends and family, most of them will not be as okay with it as they seem.

Get ready for the stares
Yes, you will be looked at every time you are together in public. Many of those looks will reflect everything from mild distaste to downright horror, but often it's just simple shock. It's like seeing conjoined twins or somebody with four prosthetic limbs. Usually, these will come from older people, but depending on where you live, they can come from anybody.

Gay people are your friends
This is not to say that there are no gay racists, there most definitely are, but in the scheme of controversial relationships, homosexual relationships are about on par with interracial relationships as far as general acceptability goes. They know how it feels.

Myths about fat chicks

"They try harder" because they are desperate
So, let's say that you have a woman the size of a Buick, I can guarantee that there are at least a hundred men in a square mile of her who would want sex with her, and at least a third of them, openly and without the influence of alcohol. Many of them will even engage in an actual relationship. They have no reason to "try harder". Fat chicks have more options than your average good-looking guy.

They eat all the time
Usually they are self-conscious about it until they get comfortable with you, assuming that excessive eating is why they are fat in the first place. This is not always the case.

They have hygiene issues
No more so than any other chick. Hygiene issues tend to be about youth. Younger (single) women are more likely to have issues in this area.

They are insecure
Not entirely a myth, but less so than popular culture would have you believe. Many consciously make the choice between meeting the contemporary idea of beauty, and enjoying food. There are many men who still want to date them, so they can have the best of both worlds. The confidence issues are largely related local culture.

They are "loose"
"Loose" physically if you get my drift. This may be so if they have had children, but that can be the case with women of any size. This is purely a psychological issue for men, a problem of perception. Size in one area does not indicate size in another, any more than all fat guys are well-endowed.

Tips for fat guys who want hot chicks

The answer to this is usually a firm no unless you have money. Money is the great mask for all physical and personality problems. There are no relationships with hot, sexy stripper types in your future, no cougars will want to relive their youth with you, nobody will feel good to be seen with you unless…

You are "funny"
Not just mildly witty, not just having an average sense of humor, but full on, attention-whore, class-clown, Chris Farley humor. That gives them something to talk about with their family and girlfriends, an excuse for being with you. You amuse her, and you make her look good, it's win-win for her. It will, however, be a temporary, short-term fling unless you come into some money.

You are completely pathetic
This means that you have no self-esteem, and look like you will spend the rest of your life in lonely virginity unless someone takes pity on you. Then you get to be her charity case and the world will praise her for being a kind of Mother Theresa. Again, this gives her a ready-made excuse for being around you.

You are working on getting skinny
There is light at the end of the tunnel, and she can claim to have loved you when you were unattractive, and can tell herself that she is therefore unshallow. Again, you make her look good, and she will be able to boast about you and show you off when you finally get fit. She gets to motivate you, too, fix you up as it were, giving her a sense of power.

Note: All this might be different for fat lesbians.